If you want to make a friend you have to be genuinely and be nice when you meet them. Be there for when they need you and always be by there side. Always support your friend on what they want to do. Always stay positive with them and never give up on them. Be an attentive listener when they need someone to talk to. Never judge them by what they are telling you. Have a nice talk and learn new things about each other. Make sure you are trustworthy and they can tell you anything. Make sure you respect them so they can respect you and never treat them in an ugly manner. Do fun activities it will make the friendship grow. Always be there to listen to the stories they have. "We let folks know we're interested in them and that they're vital to us. cause they are."-Sam Walton
Rule 2: Smile: 
Remembering names is important because it says that you actually pay attention. You make a commitment to yourself by remembering names. You actually listen to the person when they first introduce themselves. You can remember a persons name by they act towards you. It show that you have morals remembering people names and care. When you remember names you show them that they are important and they are someone willing to remember. When you don't remember names you are not a good person and are heading for trouble. Always remember names because you can make that person feel special and they will feel like they are a part of your life. You are being respectful because you don't call them by another name like hey you because that can hurt there feelings. You always want to remember peoples names so that they can feel comfortable and good that you remembered there names. When remembering names you are being kind because they are your friends. Remember names because it makes they feel very important and happy. "Every name is real. That's the nature of names."-Jerry Spinelli
Rule 4: Be a Good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. 
Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
Yesterday when I got out of school I went straight home because it was way too hot. So I got home and turned on the AC in my room and just stayed there because it was hot to go anywhere. I took a little nap before starting my homework. Once I started my homework i started listening to music because I concentrated better when I listen to music. I finished my homework and then just kept listening to music. Later in the day I went to my cousins house to buy tickets for Horror Nights to go on Sunday. Then when I got back home I started to watch a movie called Takers, it is an awesome movie. I always watch that movie every time I get a chance to watch it. 
Do what they fear to show that you have courage to do something fearful. Don't be scared of the things they fear because maybe you are not going to be scared. They will hate that you don't fear they do. They fear things that they have not tried, but you shouldn't fear because new things because new things will actually make you brave. Having fear can you lead you to have anger and think negative. Don't fear what you don't understand because that lead to more fear and discourage. People hate what they fear but don't try to face there fear. They don't try to face there fear and there fear just grows more. Do what they fear because that will make them angry. Having fear doesn't help because it can just create anxiety. Try the things that they fear to see if they can get over that fear. You have to face the fear and rise from it. You face and you learn not fear. Facing your fear can make you grow stronger and be more successful. Do not fear what they fear have courage and face it. You can either choose to face that fear or run from it. "Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live"-Dorothy Thompson 
When you are willing to prepare you are willing to commit to what you are doing and not give up. Always be willing to try something new and prepare for it. Never tell yourself you can't do it because in reality you can. Always do it for fun and don't stop because you are afraid. You have to be willing to prepare in order to start something new. Try out new things takes time to prepare. Trying a new thing will not be perfect the first time you do it , you need time to prepare. Everyone has i there mind that they want to win but are not willing to prepare to win, that will not get you anywhere. If you are not prepare to do something then you will fail because you did not want to prepare. Things don't come easily you got to prepare yourself. Prepare to be ready in life and become successful. Never give up the first time you fail you have to going and become more prepared. Getting prepare takes time and it is not easy it takes progress. Establish your priorities first and keep making progress. Just because you fail first does not mean you have to give up. You will accomplish what you wan if you are willing to prepare. "You get whatever accomplishment you are willing to declare."-Georgia O'Keeffe
You are willing to risk failure when you are willing to get an experience. You can't succeed unless you are willing to risk failure and get back up and try again. You are willing to risk failure when you really want something. Willing to risk failure doesn't mean you have to give up you learn and grow from it until you get it right. You don't always succeed in the first try it takes time again and again so don't give up when you have failed once. If you are not willing to risk then you will not learn the experience. Failure doesn't mean give up it means get up and keep trying and gaining experience. Those who fail are successfully because they gained experience. You learn from failing. When you take one path and fail you don't give p you take the other path and see where it takes you. You have to be brave and take failure before reaching success. "Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go."- T.S Eliot
You are teachable when you teach someone a valuable lesson about something important. You are teachable when you are willing to listen to others. Having true humility is staying teachable. You are teachable when you teach others to choose the right path and never choose the wrong. You are willing to learn from your mistakes and move on. When you stop learning that is when you stop growing and when you really want to learn you are growing. You are willing to have a teachable mind to be prepare for the future and have a good life. When you are teachable you are being a role model and a leader to the younger people. You are teachable when younger people are looking up to you to have a positive life and be productive. You seek knowledge and truth when being teachable. Experience teaches only the teachable when they are being positive. Being teachable you are influencing others to be good and knowledgeable and that is power. "What I believe is that all clear minded people should remain two things throughout their lifetimes: curious and teachable."-Roger Ebert
6. Have Heart To be a good and caring person you need to have a good heart. A caring heart is what helps you get through life. Having a big heart is having a good life and appreciating every moment of your life.When you have a heart you don't hold grudges you move on and let it go. When you have a bad heart you are an evil person that holds grudges so it's better to have a good heart to live a healthy life style. When you have a good heart you help others, you put your trust on others, you give too much, and you give love a lot. You can the the greatest heart and people will hate you but you will not let that get you, you keep going with your life and just keep smiling like always. When you have good heart you are always a happy person. No matter how many time people want to bring you down you keep having a good heart and keep being successful. You can have a lot of money but have the ugliest heart and you can have no money and have the best heart in the world and be happy. You don't every single thing in this world to be happy all you need is to have a heart. Always have a good heart no matter what happens. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched- they must be felt by the heart."-Helen Keller